We live in a society that has huge expectations of others. Much of which we take for granted — until something is taken away from us. Then there is a tendency to blame others for your own disappointment. For the past few months now we have been encouraged to follow social distancing guidelines, wash our hands more than regularly and to avoid hugs and touching apart from our partners and those we live with.
So for the first few weeks that’s exactly what we did — although I think there was a small section of the community that couldn’t see the need for these restrictions. There has been much talk of conspiracy theories and the like. Most of us however followed the guidelines so we could eventually get on with our lives — with the aim of returning to our regular or ‘normal’ activities again. But over the past weeks I’ve noticed many seeming to ignore the social distancing and slipping back into close proximity again. This is despite supermarkets and shops having designated marks on floors for us to use and follow.
The aim of the whole program is to avoid any potential spread of disease and yes it has been a bit of a bother at times, yet is also becoming a way of life. If it keeps me well then I’m very happy to have these restrictions. Having worked for a large portion of my life as a nurse — retired now — I understand the need to adhere to these strict measures. And even though I miss the hugs and handshakes it’s not so bad once you get used to it.
Yesterday we were informed that because of the rise in the number of new infections, that parts of the state would go into lockdown from today. Back to really strict guidelines again in order to protect us and hopefully reduce the numbers infected to a manageable level. As I see it, the return to higher numbers of cases of COVID-19 could happen at any time and anywhere in the country. Yet we have states pitted against each other, complaints about border closures and nasty headlines about Victorians being ‘Mexicans’ because we are south of the border with a rise in infections. Everybody seems to be looking for someone else to blame — probably secretly smiling because ‘it’ is happening to us and not them. Also what I understand is if we had all continued to adhere to the guidelines then just maybe we could have avoided this second wave.
Yes, we have had an increase of cases detected, but our testing numbers have also risen substantially, so of course if you test more then you will likely find more. So I believe that it could well be a case of ‘There but for the grace of god go I..’ and liken it to the old adage that people who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.
It may well come back to bite you!
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